This text also available in German: „Die 5-W-Regel zur Kontaktaufnahme“
The time has come. Despite the pandemic and with the necessary precautions and hygiene measures, the studios are open again! Yay! Finally you can make an appointment with the dominatrix or dominus of your choice!
“Uh, what, like, appointment? Can’t I just walk in there?”
Well, not for me at least. I’m sure there are studios where spontaneous sessions are possible, but that’s not the case with me. So in order to successfully make an appointment with me, I have a little guide for you. I have already written something here (in German) about the first contact by phone. We start with the 5-W-pattern. A bit like an emergency call, only sexier.
Who are you?
No, I don’t want to hear your life story and you don’t have to tell me your real name when you first contact me, but I don’t want to address you with “Hey, you there!” either. It is absolutely not necessary to write me “Hello, I am George, 45 years old, 187 cm tall, 90 kg heavy with blue eyes and brown hair” etc.. These outward appearances are not relevant to me. I don’t want to read a novel about your previous experiences either.
Example: “Good day, Madame Simone. I am [Name].”
What is it about?
Is it directly about an appointment, or do you want to ask whether I offer something in particular? Then write that directly. I can work better with “Do you also offer couple education, ponyplay or feminisation?” than if I have to pull everything out of your nose if you can’t get to the reason for your contact. Again – no novels. You don’t have to write me your fantasies in long texts, and I won’t go into them. We’ll be happy to discuss ideas once we’ve made an appointment. (Or more specifically: there is no free w**nk material from me!)
Example: “Good day, Madame Simone. I am [Name] and would like to make an appointment with you for a clinic session.”
When do you want it to take place?
Tell me specifically when it suits you. On my homepage I have listed the days on which I generally make appointments. You can use this as a guide and then tell me the times that suit you. I will then check whether I still have free appointments in the desired time periods. “I’m on holiday next week and can come every day” is also okay, but only if I don’t get the answer “Oh no, always except then, I’m at the hairdresser’s” or something similar when I make a suggestion.
Example: “Good day, Madame Simone. I am [Name] and would like to make an appointment with you for a clinic session. I can do Wednesday and Thursday next week from 3pm. Do you have time for me there?“
hoW long do you want it to last?
(Yeah, that’s a bit cheating with one of the “W”s. I’m entitled to do so.)
Would you like to book an hour? One and a half? Two? A long term session? An overnight? Then please say so. Approximations are completely useless, just like “just licking feet for 20 minutes”. I offer 30-minute appointments exclusively online, there’s no discussion.
Example: “Good day, Madame Simone. I am [Name] and would like to make an appointment with you for a clinic session. I can do Wednesday and Thursday next week from 3pm. Do you have time for me then? I would like to come and see you for an hour.”
Where would you like to experience something?
I commute between Hamburg and Cologne. I’m usually alternating in Cologne for about six and in Hamburg for three weeks. You can always look up when I am where here: Termine
In Cologne I offer appointments in a hotel, hourly hotel and possibly a rental studio. In Hamburg, appointments in a hotel or studio are possible. Since I also offer escort services for going out to eat or for cultural events, it is important to say so directly.
For example: “Good day, Madame Simone. I am [Name] and would like to make an appointment with you for a clinic session. I can do Wednesday and Thursday next week from 3pm. Do you have time for me then? I would like to go to the rental studio XYZ with you for an hour.”
Alternatively: “Good afternoon, Madame Simone. I am [Name] and would like to make an appointment with you next week for a classic OTK spanking and English education at my hotel XYZ. I can do Wednesday and Thursday from 16:00. Gladly for two hours and afterwards I would like to invite you for a cocktail in the hotel bar.”
See? It’s not all that difficult!